If you love what you do, it isnít work

Jul 06 2004 by Dan Bobinski Print This Article

Last week, while having breakfast at a hotel restaurant, my server (whoís name was Janet) struck up a conversation with me about what she wanted to do with her life. Janetís father had dutifully informed her that she should not seek employment in a field she enjoyed, because ďafter a while,Ē he told her, ďdoing what you enjoy will seem like work, and then you wonít enjoy it.Ē

With all due respect to Janetís father, thatís poppycock.

One key to success is to do what you enjoy, and do it with gusto Ė just do it with balance. Obviously, anything done in overkill mode eventually burns you out, even if itís your lifeís passion. But with a balanced approach, thereís no reason not to follow your lifeís calling.

In fact, we can experience unneeded stress when we do what we were not meant to do. Parker Palmer thought he was called to be a minister. In his book ĎLet Your Life Speak: Listening for the Voice of Vocationí, Palmer writes:

So it came as a great shock, at the end of my first year [in seminary], God spoke to meóin the form of mediocre grades and massive miseryóand informed me that under no conditions was I to become an ordained leader in His church.

Palmer went off to eventually find his true calling, as a teacher and a writer. Whenever resistance fights against the force of our motivation, we have to find out why. Is it something destructive inside ourselves, or is it Godís way of saying that the endeavor is not our true vocation? Palmer writes:

Vocation does not come from willingness. It comes from listening. I must listen to my life and try to understand what it is truly about Ė quite apart from what I would like it to be about Ė or my life will never represent anything real in the world, no matter how earnest my intentions.

That insight is hidden in the word vocation, which is rooted in the Latin for ďvoice.Ē Vocation does not mean a goal that I pursue. It means a calling that I hear. Before I can tell my life what I want to do with it, I must listen to my life telling me who I am.

Such was the case with a man I recently met named Tim. Tim works as a retail manager, and he was attending a training class I was conducting last month. He approached me on break and said he was feeling the urge to pursue another career. It wasnít that he was unhappy in his current position, but he felt an inner drive to do something else. The problem? His current position pays quite well, and he is concerned about providing security for his family.

Tim certainly has a decision to make: Taking care of his family is, and should be, his first priority. But at the same time, he could start exploring his options and strategizing a plan for a possible switch down the road. As we talked about it, Tim agreed that he could start taking some classes at the local university to start on the path he wants to follow, without jeopardizing his current stability.

I wrote about this topic four months ago, but it bears repeating: We have only so many days on earth. To be unhappy with one third of our lives because we donít enjoy what we do is, in my opinion, not listening to the voice of our vocation. Besides, if you love what you do, itís not work.

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Dan Bobinski
Dan Bobinski

Daniel Bobinski teaches teams and individuals how to use emotional intelligence and how to create high impact training. Heís also a best-selling author, a popular speaker, and he loves helping teams and individuals achieve workplace excellence